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Change your conversations.
Change your relationships.
Change your life.

Ways to work together

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Maybe you’ve landed here because something in your life is asking to change.

You may be tired of pushing your needs aside to keep the peace. Or you’re noticing you’re having the same conversation over and over again. Maybe you know there’s a truer, freer version of your life waiting for you - but you’re not sure how to get from here to there.

This is the work I love to do: helping folks hear themselves more clearly, say what they mean, set boundaries with love and grace, and build healthy relationships that have room for everyone to stretch out and be themselves.

Together, we will meet you exactly where you are today as we support you in moving towards what you are wanting.

Hello dear one, welcome. I’m Frankie (she/her), I'm glad you’re here.

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The privilege of a lifetime is to become more of who you truly are.

The privilege of a lifetime is to become more of who you truly are.

— Carl Jung

Kind Words from Darling Clients:

  • Frankie has the magical ability to make both people in the relationship feel seen and heard. She brings a loving heart and cultivates a judgement-free space to attend to whatever is needed, in service of the relationship. She tracks experiences beautifully and helps us see throughlines and patterns that we didn't know existed. Through these reflections back, we are able to treat each other with compassion, kindness and understanding. Our relationship has strengthened because of our work with Frankie.

    Priya (Couples Work)

  • The work I have done with Frankie has been incredibly deep and meaningful. She has helped me process past trauma and has guided me through my healing journey with so much grace and compassion. She has helped me unlock and feel the most profound self-love, and for that, I am eternally grateful. I can wholeheartedly say the work we’ve done together has transformed my life in so many positive ways and I’m so excited to continue working with her as my coach.

    Valentina C

  • I first met Frankie as a debilitatingly anxious 23-year-old in San Francisco. I found myself at this time overwhelmed regularly, disconnected from meaningful mutually beneficial relationships, struggling to communicate effectively, boundary-less, and resourcing with drugs and alcohol. My work with Frankie has spanned a decade and genuinely saved my life. Frankie creates a safe space for her clients to breakthrough at their own pace all while gently reframing any cruel or dismissive inner voices that may be keeping clients in a place of shame. Frankie has supported and cheered me on as I explored new resources, diminished substance use, worked on creating boundaries and strategies for non-violent communication, and changed my life trajectory significantly for the better. I feel blessed to know and work with her.

    Bebe L

  • My husband and I were a year into a five year journey trying to conceive when I found Frankie. I feel so lucky I had her as my therapist all these years and I’m not sure how I would’ve done it without her. Frankie met me at every moment with attention and support. During particularly difficult times, she was able to work with my doctors and provide a clarity to my situation that was absolutely necessary to move forward with our journey. Frankie helped me build a toolbox to deal with life’s challenges that I’m eternally grateful for; we now have two healthy children, my life is filled with joy every day and I owe so much to Frankie.

    Sarah G

  • Frankie is absolutely wonderful to work with. I’ve tried many therapists in the past but never found one who truly resonated with me.. until Frankie. She has been instrumental in helping me develop a secure attachment style, regulate my emotions, and build confidence in myself and my intuition. She has also helped me better manage feelings that once felt overwhelming. Frankie has an incredible ability to adapt to her client’s needs and meet them exactly where they are. I’m deeply grateful to have the opportunity to work with her and plan to continue for as long as I can.

    Meghan T

  • I am blown away by Frankie's easeful ability to listen to my words and synthesize them wisely and efficiently. Within just 90 minutes of working with Frankie, I not only learned more about myself than I had in years of therapy but also felt armed with practical tools and strategies to help me move forward. Frankie brings authentic (and contagious) joy and passion to her work!

    Elise F

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